Happy Dance

Ok. So I am going to try not to be too political here just because this blog is mostly intended to be about my daughter and her life with Autism and Agenesis of the Corpus Callosum. But sometimes with Special Needs, you have to be political. You have to be your child’s biggest advocate. When … More Happy Dance

The “V” Word

Ahhh… The V word. The thing that no one likes to take about. The word that may make some blush and make others just really uncomfortable. But you know what? I am going there. Yes, ladies and gentlemen… the V word. Hold onto your hats. Wait for it… Wait for it…Wait for it… Vasectomy! Phew! … More The “V” Word


For so long, I worried about my kiddo and what was going on with her. Truth of the matter is, I still do and prob always will. Over the last month, she has made such progress and she truly is my inspiration. Yesterday we got the call about the final results of genetic testing. The … More Enjoy

Where do I begin?

I haven’t been on here for awhile. I guess I am just trying to come to terms with the information that was given to us after my daughter’s MRI. Everything seems to be making sense now that we mostly know what is going on with our beautiful little girl. So there are two things that … More Where do I begin?

Light it Up Blue

For awhile now I have been debating on letting people “I know” know about Aislin. Not because I am ashamed but because social media can be a dangerous place. I don’t want the “I’m sorry” or “We didn’t know, that must be so hard, hun,” comments. I really don’t want them to say anything. What … More Light it Up Blue

The Hardest Part

I think the hardest part about being a Special Needs parent is not something that you can write down in words or explain to the fullest extent. You try to find the words, yet it doesn’t come out right. All the feelings and emotions don’t sound as deep and as painful. When you begin to … More The Hardest Part


Have you ever waited in a waiting room and it felt like forever to find out if someone is going to be ok? That seems like my life. A was a late walker and she has always been not all that steady on her feet. Somedays are better than others. The last day however, she … More Waiting

I’m Not Special

I think one of the worst things a person can say is, “God only gives you what you can handle.” Fuck That. Excuse my language but it is the truth. I am not special, I wasn’t “chosen” to have a child with special needs. I just have a child with special needs, there is a … More I’m Not Special